i think my personality is everything a girl would want i am extermly emotional, want just love no sex in a relationship, would care deelply about her, just have no idea how to talk to em, gfless for life at 18 almost and dont know what to do. i am 5 6, muscular, long black emo hair that curls at the end, its frizzy sometimes but i brush it a lot to stop that from happening, theres an emo style girl that i really like seems like the one but never talked to her, how could i approach her without being creepy in the hallway, cause ive been told i am creepy before sigh. Would saying hi with a smile be enough? Thanks for input.
Question on girls? look for other 'creepy' people, you dont have to change for them!
Question on girls? why dont you get off the girls, then ask the question...
lol im kidding
well, it sounds like your trying to hard. in all seriousness, just wait, and you'll find the right one... also, it might be best to stop "expecting" your good enough
Question on girls? give her a slight smile. not a big creepy smile. then if she smiles back talk to her. good luck
Question on girls? at first, when your in the hall, just smile at her, then some other time, maybe later in the week say hi, see if shes willing to talk, if she is, see what you have in common,....dont worry about being too creepy, cause shes emo too, and soo I doupt she would be too creeped out. lol
Question on girls? yeah saying hi and smiling is good, a girl whos alitle less shy should come up to you, and if not, give out a compliment.
Question on girls? um.... get rid of the hair?
i don't know?
you sound cute
why wouldn't she like u?
and it all depends on who said your kinds creepy
if they're creepy themselves,
then don't pay any attention
Question on girls? i would say start out with small things, like smile and hi, or just a passing nice comment. see where it goes from there. and i wish there were more guys like you in the world!
Question on girls? Start with a little smile and hi.
Question on girls? Saying hi with a smile is always enough, you just have to do more after that when you next run into the girl. Saying hi and smiling gets you noticed by them and may make them think "oh hey look at him" or something like that. The next time that you run into that girl (the one you smiled at), you could try to say something else or maybe even a bigger smile, but after a while you will have to start talking because smiles won't always cut it.
Question on girls? Maybe they think you're gay. Try to be more "manly". Or just wait for someone who'll love you for you
Question on girls? yes
Question on girls? go for it , try to bring up something you both would like to talk about good -luck and don't worry there's a miss right for you,,,
Question on girls? you have the wrong idea on sex. Girls like sex but dont want to be used just for sex. approach her by doing something goofy infront of her to make her laugh and then go over and talk to her. or just talk about something that is going on. its quite easy and approaching a girl isnt creepy. if anything they get flattered.
Question on girls? just talk to her as you would with any other person... this would show who you really are and its not so nerve racking. start off by saying hi and smiling, then she might approch you and start a conversion. dont worry bout what you look like or how other people percieve you, its how she will percieve you and if she likes you as a person.. not looks. otherwise she is shallow and not worth your love. i hope it all works out for you
Question on girls? It sounds like you are a great kid, but girls are not that hard to talk to. Accidentally bump into her in the hallway, apologize and help pick up her books if you accidentally knock them out of her hands to show that you are a nice caring person and then try speaking to her like you said and smile after that and maybe she will notice you and start talking to you then. Good Luck!
Question on girls? well i think try it wihtout a lot of emotion for awhile. you have to be a little naughty some times. trry and find out what shes into. just be like; hey wats up? and your convo should most likly go from there. i would try a casual smile.not like hey im gunna be your nest stalker but like passing a friend type smile. dont say hi it sound childish stick with hey. how long is long?? like shoulder. It would be refered to as SCENE hair instead of emo. btw.
so yea.
good luck!
sometimes you just have to go after what you want.
Question on girls? uh you could try that and it would work but it wouldn't get you very far. see who she hangs out with if you know one of them randomly go up to them and say hi to them. it will get her to notice you.
Question on girls? lose the emoness (but if that's who you are then just be yourself.) a smile and hi is exactly what you should do (really try it.) you sound really nice but im not into emo. that emo girl will be lucky to have you. good luck and don't be afraid of rejection, any girl that rejects you isn't good enough for you! bye
Question on girls? Simple... Its like learning to do anything.. you start off small and give it time, Try just saying hello to her every day and being polite, it doesnt go unnoticed although it may seem it. By being nice in such a manner you may be able to lose your "Creepy" tag that has been put on you. Tell her Good Morning and other similar greetings. Then eventually start asking small questions such as how her day is going. Notice when she changes something ( such as a haircut or a new purse etc. and compiment. but not everything, that just is creepy) just start simple =] and good luck m8
Question on girls? I think you should "accidentally" bump into her. pretend ur listening to your mp3player or iPod, then knock into her. But know where you're going. and don;t look to obviousé–³?br>Question on girls?
"long black emo hair that curls at the end, its frizzy "
Therein lies your problem....
Cut your hair, use some gel - it doesn't hurt to go the extra mile! :)
(I'm not trying to be harsh or hurtful. just honest.)
Question on girls? well, you sound pretty nice. OK, what you need to do is first find out if she has a bf, if not ask a friend to talk to someone who knows her to find out what she likes then approach her and say hi with a smile but.. not too big just a nice smile. If she says hi back compliment her shoes or how good her hair looks this will start a conversation then say something like, " so I heard you like scary movies and there is one playing Friday would you like to go with me AND SOME FRIENDS" for the first time invite some friends to go with you this will make her feel more secure and more willing to go also tell her to invite some of her friends to go also. Once you are there sit next to her and make her feel good to be around after that you can invite her to go out with you alone!! Good Luck I hope she likes you and everything works out!
Question on girls? just do it, try to talk with her, girls, my friend are very unpredictable, the only way to know if She likes you or if,she would Like you is only becoming her friend. don't be afraid you can only lose your freedom. lol
Question on girls? First, change your appearance -- especially if people say you look creepy. Go to a stylist for your hair and look in good men's magazines to get ideas on clothing of successful guys. If you can afford it, go to a good men's clothing store and get the honest opinion of some guys in there about how to have a successful look for someone your age.
Don't dress or look like a looser. Ever. People will treat you according to how you look. If you look like you respect yourself and go to some effort to look sharp, you'll be treated with more respect. We signal people how to treat us and they subconsciously respond to those signals.
Be clean. Bathe and wash your hair every day. Wear deodorant and brush your teeth. There's nothing worse that looking at someone's scummy teeth.
After you have the right look, be friendly, but not pushy or over-bearing. Act confident, but not cocky.
You have to be friendly to have friends.
If she ignores you or acts like she's not interested, then move on. You can't force people to fall in love with you. Go for someone else.
Don't give up -- it takes lots of practice!
Good luck!!!
Question on girls? Smile at her...or
Open the door for her/hold the door for her... even if she's a few too many steps behind you after you've already opened the door.
(If you hold the door open for that long, she'll know you're interested in her to some degree, because you were willing to wait for her.
Then hopefully you can catch her at lunch and go over and say "hey" or sit with her for a few minutes at her table...and say something clever..or compliment her.
-You can say, "So yeah, I've seen you around and I've wanted to say "hi" for the longest time....pause, smile and say...My name's___ _ ."
-Something like that, so she knows you're into her..then see if she blushes/ smiles, or if she looks disinterested...then you can plan your next move...
Good luck!
=)
Question on girls? Buddy! Let me tell you a little secret
boys: Rejection is the biggest enemy for 98%- get over it.
girls: they'll rarely make the 1st move- so go for it, u need a start good or bad does'nt matter.......
